Tuesday, December 13, 2005

Whats this racket...

Imagine you are sitting in a room with a tin roof, and its raining incessantly. Sometimes it is soft and soothing even, but sometimes its loud and scary. Every now and then, add a couple of thunders too. And this room is in the middle of an African rain forest, where people around do not even speak your language. And they humor you, and try to cuddle you, and essentially treat you like a toy capable of laughable antics.

No. You are not a prisoner of war. Neither are you an African science project (if there exists such a thing)... nor are you about to be offered to God as a human sacrifice. You are, in fact, just a baby.

I read this in an article in Reader's Digest several years back, and somehow since I was writing about babies in my last post, I felt like including this small factoid here too. Ofcourse, for new parents, much of this may be old news. But my role here is that of awakening consciousness... and so this is mostly for people who are uninitiated about such facts.



In my earlier scenario, just replace the tin roof with the baby's eardrums, and the rain with all the noise around (note that it includes our voices too, as words without meaning are nothing but noise). I read that when you speak to a baby, your voice corresponds to a different sounding rain drop falling on that tin roof. Now if its nice and soft, like a plitter platter, the baby smiles. Not because the baby thinks you are the next brad pitt/princess diane, but just because the baby likes the sound of your voice! Alarmingly simple, isnt it? And since the baby hears his/her mother's soft voice the most, it will always find that voice the most soothing (ofcourse, once baby grows up to a kid and mom has to shout all the time its a whole new story meritting I guess a whole new blog post :) ).

So next time you go see a baby and you are all "goo-goo, ga-ga" with it, remember that you will need many years of unlearning to speak that language again, but at least if you can be soft and tender, there are more chances of that priceless giggle over that blasting baby siren!

And even if that siren does sound, dont take it personally. Blame it all on that African rainforest thingy ;)

6 Comments:

Blogger mtalpz said...

Recently you are writing too many baby blogs..wassup???
;)

9:11 AM, December 13, 2005  
Blogger kundalini said...

for a non-parent, this was well written. if i may add, i actually dont believe in baby speak. but i definitely believe in gentle and patient tones. this, if achieved consistently is, in my opinion, a huge achievement. i find that most parents of infants feel there is no need to watch what they say around their babies. i think you have to watch what you say, *how* you say it, and definitely what you do. a simple "no" or a stern glare is enough to evoke a rollercoaster type emotional reaction. that seemingly helpless thing looking up from its crib is actually quite a sophisticated social learner, with keen powers of observation and tons of emotional sensitivity :)

keep up the role of "awakening consciousness".

11:43 AM, December 13, 2005  
Blogger Joy Ghosh said...

@mtalpz - :)) well u see the benefit is 2-fold:

1. the world of babies seem to me most amazing

2. i get to post my nephew jishnu's snaps over and over again :D

@kundalini - i guess this goes back to what we wwere talking about earlier.. how the baby's mind is like a sponge and it takes on one hand everything around it, and on the other hand it also means that it *only* takes whats around it. So I am sure you have to tip-toe around it to not wake up the wrong side!

hmm... raising a child has started to look like more and more daunting to me now!!

if you got any of your baby's snaps online.. let me know :)

9:55 AM, December 14, 2005  
Blogger nomadic_waves said...

It was nice reading thru some of ur write ups...

2:16 PM, December 14, 2005  
Blogger Joy Ghosh said...

@nomadic_waves - thanks! I briefly surfed through some of your posts too. Forgive me if I am too brash, but I sensed a lot of hurt and anger. I sincerely hope you can find the way to heal yourself. One life is too short to waste thrashing upon someone else's misdoings.

I read your "about me" description.. feel like writing a post on it now.. shall be happy if you read it (if and when I do)

9:17 AM, December 15, 2005  
Blogger Vidya Bharrgavi said...

:-) lol.. nice train of thought..

2:34 PM, December 15, 2005  

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